It’s the time of the season. School has been in session for a while, and students are finding homework to be cumbersome. I’m hearing from parents that they aren’t sure how to be helpful. Here are some thoughts I’ve gathered from folks in the field.

Homework is what it says —- work. Its purpose is practice. Practicing what is learned in the classroom helps to increase understanding. It means taking good notes, reading textbooks, looking up vocabulary, reviewing notes, consulting with other students and teachers, and many other things. By the time your student is in middle or high school, he or she has either acquired good homework skills or not. Okay, so let’s get real. It’s not always fun, not even some of the time! But, it’s essential, just like some of the responsibilities of parenting that you might not enjoy — like laundry and grocery shopping.

So, to start, take a deep breath. Create a space and time for homework (the same space and time every day). Try to stick to the homework schedule as much as possible. In front of the TV isn’t a good choice! Show a little enthusiasm! Recognize the commitment it takes to get it done, and offer praise and support. Help to make the connection between school performance and future choices. Work with your child on those skills that come a little harder, and appreciate his or her effort. Establish yourself as a support person while encouraging your child’s independence.

You can do it!  f you get stuck, ask for help. Keep the questions and suggestions coming. There’s a wealth of information out there, and we’ll answer your questions right here. Come back and visit!